I’ve been thinking..
How many hints do they need to figure out what’s right in front of them?
Do they know I like them?
Am I just not as important as the other people they take pictures with?
What am I to them?
Do they know that they’re always on my mind?
Am I anything to them?
Have they been thinking about me?
How will you know? You won’t until you get out there! We all know that’s hard, but let’s face it. What is the worst thing that could happen? A rejection? Sure, it’ll hurt at first, but it just means that he wasn’t the one. Why would it matter? They’re just missing out on what could have been.
A close friend- if you’re falling in love with your close friend, what do you do? Well, weigh your options. If you do get together, it can be the best thing or it can be the worst. Being close friends, you both obviously know a lot about each other and care for each other as well. But while the relationship may last, what if it doesn’t? It can end up being the worst relationship you’ve broken off from. You may never speak to them again and the friendship may never be repaired. If it does go well, they may be the one you’ve always been looking for. The best people in your life are those who are right in front of you, so don’t go out and try chasing after people that aren’t with you already. You don’t need them because all you need is right there with you.
A classmate, neighbor, co-worker, anyone you like- you’re crazy about this person. Your friends tell you that they think this person likes you, but you deny it. However, inside, you’re dying from the fact that people think that person likes you. It makes you feel happy and confident. When you talk to this person it feels like you two click and you both can’t stop smiling at each other. It’s obvious to others, but not you. You over think these questions in your head and become cautious as to what you do and say. You get nervous around them, wanting to be perfect in hopes of them liking you. Let’s say this person is friendly to everyone and is definitely well-liked by others. What do you do? If this person isn’t giving you any hints, give them some. Maybe they’re a bit shy as to start the move. In a relationship, both persons will have to work. Who knows? Maybe then they will get the clue.
Basically, you can’t just wait and have everything given to you the way you want it. If you want something, go for it. Don’t just loiter around waiting for them to come to you. Sometimes you’re challenged in life. Take those challenges and make them accomplishments. Show people that you’re not afraid of being who you are and that you have confidence in yourself. Getting rejected or laughed at isn’t as bad as not knowing what could have happened. Take chances and risks. The outcome is yours to make.
